The Weekend

All events take place in Lauder

Fri 31 Jul - Mon 3 Aug

Our Wedding will take place on Sunday 2 August 2026, at Thirlestane Castle, but the celebrations in Lauder begin earlier! You're welcome to arrive on Friday evening, Saturday, or even Sunday morning - whatever suits you best.

However long you can join us, we’ve planned a fun-filled weekend and would love for you to be part of it.

Friday 31 July

THE LOCAL

7.00pm - Drinks in the Black Bull

(You can also have dinner in the Inn, but you must reserve a table in advance - this is the same for the Saturday night too)

Saturday 1 August

Sunday 2 August

WEDDING

1.15pm - Cloak Room Opens (Courtyard) [leave your flats & layers]

1.30pm - Guests’ Arrival at Thirlestane Castle

2.00pm - Ceremony (Rose Garden)

2.45pm - Drinks Reception & Canapés (Castle Terrace)

4.45pm - Wedding Breakfast (State Drawing Room)

6.00pm - Speeches

6.45pm - Cocktail Hour with Cake Cutting (State Dining Room)

7.45pm - Evening Reception (Courtyard & Vaults) [Food Provided]

11.45pm - Last Orders

Midnight - Carriages

Monday 3 August

GOODBYE DROP-IN

10.00am - If you’re still around on the Monday morning, drop-in to Thirlestane Castle’s Victorian Kitchen until 11:30am to say goodbye to everyone.